Gossips
Well well its a fact that I like to know more Juicy and Interesting News, whether in Course or any other past affiliation. But nah ... recently there is scarcely any news to mention in the course. Of cos observations and comments are still made when I join my little chat grps but its too Puny to be mentioned. One of the most recent case was a drastic friendship breakup, and as usual, Pentium 1 me dun know bt it all the time. Sometimes I wonder, whether there's any gossips behind me or so? Haha then I realized I have the answer long time ago.
Frens
As our Marketing 103 group (Cao Xiao, Zi Kai, Joann, Ruo Gu, Xiao Liang, Agnes, Wei Jie) has our Group Dinner in Can A on Tuesday, a sudden thought of friendship relation came over me. First let me tell a story.
There was once 2 absolute Male stranger, Tom and Dick, taking a 3D2N train ride to Westin, in the same compartment.
Day 1 : They read their own books/newspaper/play PSP, not talking to each other. Day 1 past.
Day 2 : Tom was eating Ba Gua, and offered Dick some. Dick commented that it was nice, and asked him which hometown he was from. The conversation started. Tom and Dick talked and talked, bt life, wishes, gals, career, anything that they knew. They realized that they really agreed on each other so much, and hated for not meeting till now.
Day 3 : As Tom and Dick has their last sip of coffee before reaching Westin, they exchanged contacts and hug each other, promising to contact each other after.
They reached Westin. From that point onwards, they never met again for the rest of their life, as both were busy with their lives and did not initiate to contact the other.
So wats the moral of the story ? Nope, its not about how fragile a friendship is, or not showing enough care for a fren. What I want to say is, the time that friendship blooming has a limited lifespan, say a semester or a few years. After that, friendship will either stay in a bloom period, or wither. The Focus is then on the Blooming Period. Cherish them, Invest ur time with them, Be happy with them.
Haha I have really enjoyed the company and working experience with my project group. I seriously hope to keep the relationship in a bloom period, say going for Events and Activities like occasion lunch, or even KBOX. Haha but I HATE TALK AND NO ACTION. So lets see k.
Outings and Events
In 6 days time I will be having my first and second paper (Biang ...) But I'm already looking OVER the exam to my holidays events. I'm seriously looking forward to Division of Chinese Zoo Trip ! I certainly hope that most ppl in DOC will come, I mean, how many chances that you get to go Zoo together ??? Its really a rare chance !!! Besides that, I will be gg for Jerangkang, Stong, Endau Rompin Trips, and the exciting Pumpfest, Foot 07, and Sea Sport Camp.
Recently, some of my frens asked me how come I go for so many camps ? Isn't there a concern over money, or even being tired of going? This provoke a thought to ask myself why I'm doing so much.
Money will be the last concern. It has been my aim since army to save for trips, so I have been scraping and saving. And also, I spend only around $100 each trips, around 10 trips each year, which made for around $1000, hey its well worth the money !
Haha, going for trips doesn't make me tired, it makes me more energetic ! Can u imagine the Places I will visit ? The Scenery that I will enjoy ? The Ppl that I will meet ? or Events that will happen ? All these made up to be unknowns, and translate to Adventure !!! (*Eyes Sparkling)
Back to my previous statement, its also a way to invest ur time with ur frens. Haha most of the trips has been classified as Foot Comm Bonding Sessions, where I really want to get to know more about my frens.
In a more personal level, these activities fulfills me. As my blog address suggest, I am quite lost in reality, some more Free Thinker. Going for such events keeps my mind looking forward to something in life.
Whats more, Uni Year 1 is ending, and Uni time is running super fast ! So just go all the way and enjoy everything Uni has to offer !
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